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30 April 2012

Know your Mother


· When you were one year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long.
· When you were two years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.
· When you were three years old, she made all your meals with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
· When you were four years old, she got you some crayons. You thanked her by colouring the dining room table.
· When you were five years old, she dressed you for holidays. You thanked her by plopping into the nearest.
· When you were six years old, she walked you to school. You thanked her by screaming "I am not going to the school !".
· When you were seven years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it to next-door-neighbours window.
· When you were eight years old, she handed you an icecream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.
· When you were nine years lod, she paid for music lesson. You thanked her by never even bothering to practise.
· When you were ten years old, she drove you all day, from swimming to gymnastic to one birthday party to another. You thanked her by jumping out of the ear and never looking back.·                   When you were eleven years old, she took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking her to sit in a different row.
· When you were twelwe years old, she warned you not to watch certain tv shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
· When you were thirteen years old, she suggested a haircut. You thanked her by telling that she had no taste.
· When you were fourteen years old, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her forgetting to write a single letter to her.
· When you were fifteen years old, she came home from work looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
· When you were sixteen years old, she taught how to drive the vehicle. You thanked her by taking every chance you could.
· When you seventeen years old, she had an expecting an important, call. You thanked her by being on the phone all over the night.
· When you were eighteen years old, she wept at your high school graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
· When you were nineteen years old. she paid for your higher education and drove you to campus.You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dormitory so you wouldn't be embrassed in front of your friends.
· When you were twenty years old, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying "It's none of your business".
· When you were twentyone years old,she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by sating, "I don't want to be like you".
· When you were twentytwo years old, she hugged you at your college graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to the west.
· When you were twenty eight years old, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving half-way across the country.
· When you were thirty years old, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked her by telling her "things are cdifferent now".
· When you fourty years old, she called to remind you of a relatives birthday. You thanked her by telling you were really busy right now.
· When you were fifty years old, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become of thier children.

And then, one day, she quietly died. And every thing you never did came crashing down like thunder on your heart. If she's still around, never forget to love her more than ever.And if she's not. Remember her unconditional love and pass it on. Always remember to love the mother. Because you have only one mother in your lifetime.




4 comments:

  1. I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life. All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother. My mother said I must always be intolerant of ignorance but understanding of illiteracy. That some people, unable to go to school, were more educated and more intelligent than college professors.

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  2. I Dont Think These Apply If Ur Mother Is Abusive, A Drunk Bitch Or A Junkie...No Offence..Itz Just That I Dont Approve Generalization In Certain Aspects Of Human Reasoning ...

    'When you were one year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long.'-Itz A Baby, Its Supposed To Cry, Its The Responsibility Of The Mom To Take Care Of Her Child, Else She Shudn Have Conceived The Child...

    'When you were two years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.'-The Kid Just Learned It Cud Walk On Two Legs, Why Shudn It Take It To The Next Level..If It Doesn Run. It Doesn Fall N If It Doesn Fall It Doesn Learn To Get Up...

    'When you were four years old, she got you some crayons. You thanked her by colouring the dining room table.'-Expansion Of Creativity...

    'When you were nine years lod, she paid for music lesson. You thanked her by never even bothering to practise.'- Maybe The Child Wanted Dance Lessons N The Mother Forced It Into Music..

    'When you were sixteen years old, she taught how to drive the vehicle. You thanked her by taking every chance you could.'-Driving Is Addicting, Dont Blame The Child...

    'When you were twentyone years old,she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by stating, "I don't want to be like you".'-I Dont Think The Term Is 'Suggested'...

    'When you were twenty eight years old, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving half-way across the country.'- If Their Spouse Lived Halfway Around The Country Its Not Their Fault...

    See All The Statements Are Defective, Cultural N Individual Differences Come Into Play....

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    1. aah ha! yea there is a reasoning in the above statements provided but it is indeed seldom to find such a mother. Though the statements in the article appear to be "defective", it just tells us how good a Mother would be to her child even at such circumstances where she has every reason to lose her patience (but she won’t!).
      Even though the child takes away all her time, she tries hard to make him the best and that is what it makes her special. A child expects so many things from its mother but never bothers to pay her back. Still she won’t ask her child for anything but only prays for him to be with her. That is forgotten by the child as the time passes and she is left out to face her bitter fate alone. That is upheld in the above article.

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    2. 1)Parents Do Get Angry When U Screw Up..Patience Is Not An Everlasting Virtue..
      2)Imposing Qualities On Him Without Even Giving Him A Choice Isn't Known As Making Him The Best...Thats Like Dressin Up A Doll The Way U Think It Shud Look...
      3)N It Pays Her Back By Giving The Mother Its Entire Childhood
      4)Face Her Bitter Fate Alone, I Thought It Was The Job Of The Guy She Married To Take Care Of Her, Through Thick And Thin, Life N Death. She Made That Promise, She Shudn Expect The Child To Keep It, The Child Has His Own Shit To Take Care Of....

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